Love as a feeling

Lalaji says that love for God is a state where the trinity of lover, beloved and love itself is lost. Which means in a state of real love we journey from self love and live for beloved and then reach a state where we loose awareness in love which is the final stage. But that does not mean that we are prohibited to enjoy love as a feeling.

We travel from ignorance, knowledge to total ignorance but knowledge is important to make us understand the difference between ignorance and total ignorance. 

What Master's tell is the ultimate reality from the level they are, but we can't jump we walk through steps slowly and steadily achieve permanency and reach their level. So I think it is not a mistake to enjoy love as a feeling with a awareness that there is a next stage to reach.