Accept change gracefully

Is moving on to new phase of life really easy especially when we get used to existing situations and routines?At times we get attached to certain things like people and environment and get used to certain other situations and people because we mentally make it our comfort zone.In either case it'
 difficult to handle sudden change.

Events and situations are only for our evolution. It is God/nature that puts us in certain situations and when change happens one has to accept it gracefully. 

Accept and act

Every situation which comes our way is for us to learn something from it and act at it. Whether it's  out of our comfort zone, expected, unexpected or whatever it be, it has come our way, then what is the use of questioning, cribbing or complaining. Half of the things which comes our way is what we are capable of handling and the other half is what we are supposed to handle. So in either case only we can help ourselves. The "CCC" mode (cribbing, complaining, comparing ) mode is such a waste of time and energy.

 Because nothing is going to change unless we accept and embrace a situation and then act on it. God helps those who help themselves, surrender does not mean just sit back. It means to put our trust in God and give our best. Success is failure turned inside out its when things seem worst that we must not quit. So accept and act. Just believe that you can, surely you will. 

Towards Reality: New life to relationships

Towards Reality: New life to relationships

New life to relationships

At times when we meet a person for the first time we might start forming ideas about them, mostly this could be based on our past experiences and may not have much to do with then.  Or we form ideas when we interact with them, how they make us feel matters a lot on what kind of idea we form about anyone. All this happens in the background without our knowledge of judgement or prejudice. At times this becomes so solid that it starts blocking the way we look at our world, the other person. If we can look at someone with a OPEN MIND as if it was the first time we are interacting with them we can give a New Lifeto existing old relationships . Time passes by, we change, situations change and even others change.  So let's clean the buffer and open a fresh page and look at everything and everyone around us with a open mind because the way we look at our world affects us much more than those around us. By this we not only forgive ourselves for wrong impressions or dislikes if any but also liberate ourselves from the wall or fence we made on our journey and allow ourselves to live life to the fullest.