Balance looks like a state of equality or oneness.There are different things we try to balance in life. But the ultimate balance seems to be a balance between the inner and the outer, the self and the universe. When this balance is achieved we have attained a state of oneness.
Imagine there are two small cement water storage adjacent to each other sharing a common wall on one side. Difference exists as long as the common segregator exists between the two storage or as long as water levels remain within the storage units.The water in both the tanks become one when the segregator breaks or if the water rises above the wall.
Same way when the wall of 'i' ness breaks we attain a state of oneness with our surrounding or if we rise above the 'i' ness we attain a state of oneness with our surrounding.The wall of ego has to break or the heart has to rise above the wall of ego to attain this state.
There is no prejudice or judgement with reagrds to whom or what to mingle.you have raised above the walls of your ego and just mingle or become one with whatever/whoever is present without a sense of awareness. Your universe expands and expands and expands indefinitely from a small I,me and mine.In this form of expansion we move closer towards the absolute balance.
