We are all born with the ability to love because love is the natural condition of the soul and its the only thing that exists. But as we grow up in this world, we pick up multi various resistance to love from people, events and situations and slowly move from our natural condition of love.
How do we overcome the resistance to love ? When we understand that the joy is in doing something with love, not in the response.
This love we should put in practice in very mundane things of day to day life. We love a friend and share good moments together. One day they move to a different place and stop keeping in touch, it hurts and instead of remembering the good moments spent together, we feel offended and we slowly develop resistance to make a good relationship with a new person who will be coming into our life in the future.
Lets take a very simple example , we answer a forum or group and give inputs based on whatever we know but then couple of times there is utter silence when we ask something, them slowly we withdraw and become passive observer instead of taking part.We forget that when we answered with enthusiasm and love we were joyful, we respond back to the moments which did not give us joy and make that our new habit.
You share important life events to someone for some reason they did not do so again resistance.You wanted to share because you felt happy doing it why expect the same.
You always remember wishing someone, one point you think they don't wish you back, then you develop resistance to your.own habit which was giving you joy.
Now the other way round, someone likes to do something, that expectation annoys you but you did it half heartedly or just out of compulsion. Try involving love and interest in that situation, what would result is joy, it no longer would seem like compulsion.
Through small things in day to day life consciously or subconsciously we keep developing resistance to the natural flow of love from our heart, forgetting that the flow of love gives joy, just vibrate in that joy.
Celebration gives joy, celebrate life , yours and also others. Joy attracts grace.
" Love is the bridge between you and everything "- Rumi
" Wherever you are, whatever you do be in love"- Rumi
"Close your eyes, fall in love stay there"-Rumi
