Enjoy and handle your unique journey

Someone spends their time and energy in chasing their dreams and goals,

Someone spends their  time and energy in handling their weakness,

Someone spends their time and energy in healing from a  internal wound,

Someone spends their time and energy in healing from physical illness, 

Someone spends their time and energy in following their passions,

Someone spends their time and energy in handling their struggles,

Someone spends their time and energy in having fun,

Someone spends their time and energy in shouldering responsibilities,

Someone spends their time and energy in serving others.

Each person has different weaknesses, different strengths,

Each person has different internal wounds,different external wounds,

Each person has different struggles, different blessings ,

Each person has different opportunities, different source of support, 

Each person has different dreams and different satisfaction levels,

Each person has different perception of success and happiness. 

United in Universal energy of love yet each of our journey is very unique.

We just need to HANDLE what comes our way.

We need to handle what we are given,

We need to handle what we are not given,

We need to handle what we have,

We need to handle what we are.

We think it's tough to handle what is deprived in our life, 

It's actually equally tough to handle what is given.

Nature tests us both by giving and by depriving 

We need to handle both.

Enjoy, Accept and be grateful about "What is".

Act from 'What is' and keep faith on " What will be".

It's foolish to compare, it's foolish to question the "What is " of our journey, it's wise to accept with gratitude. 

Inner world and Outer world

 This is my blog two years back on the synchronization between the inner and outer.

https://towardsultimate.blogspot.com/2020/08/synchronization-between-inner-and-outer.html

The easiest way to synchronize the inner and outer is love. 

When we tolerate or adjust with someone we are trying to be good to them but we are surely not happy within. At the same time we can't be hard and hurt the other person.There is no synchronization between the inner feeling and outer behavior. Tolerance and adjustment in fact seems to be on the arrogant side. In fact we won't even have peace of mind if we can't be the same inside out.

Slowly when we bring the element called acceptance we can stay peaceful.Peace is good but it is just a beginning. There is a small degree of selfishness here on a subtle level.

How then do we really bring about the synchronization between the inner and out in a real and complete sense ? The only way is love. When we learn to love there is no need of tolerance, adjustment, acceptance absolutely anything. 

We humans are all born with the ability to love but many a times we don't use it in our day to day life situations. Love exists in so many subtle ways, be sensitive and grateful to the love you receive. When love flows from your heart just let it flow. Don't have resistance or restrictions about from where it comes and where it goes. Just keep love flowing through you heart, then you will always be in synchronization with the inner feelings and outer behaviour. 

The synchronization between inner and outer world also involves balance between self and other. Acceptance, gratitude and love is not just for the other but also for the self.

Self Acceptance to be in peace with one's own self

Gratitude (Counting our blessings), creates a joyful state within 

When there is inner peace and inner joy , love automatically follows.

Freedom is Responsibility

 Happy woman's day. 

What does a woman want? - Freedom to live life in her own way.

Rabindranth Tagore says " Freedom is Responsibility " .

You are responsible for what you feel, for what you are and what you want to be. You are responsible for the choices you make and alligning the priorities of your life.

When you are not feeling ok about something, introspect , find out what is it within you that you can change about any situation to make you feel better . Nobody else should be responsible for how you feel . All barriers to overcome are within . You are responsible for self healing ,self growth and self mastery .

Take the responsibility of your life and yourself in your hands . Keep working on every aspect of your life .keep Evolving .Follow your heart .

Self Mastery

Self Acceptance 

Self Love

Self Confidence 

Self introspection 

Self help

Self improvement 

Self motivation 

Self Respect

Self Mastery. 

Always remember , "The barriers to cross is always inside not outside" .

Follow your heart.