Saturday, December 12, 2009

Never be Judgmental

Never be judgemental.Never form prejudices based on your own perception. After all no one is perfect so are we. What rights do we have to judge others or talk about anyone ?
Every human being is governed by their own instincts and karma and nature offers them every possible opportunity to overcome their weakness and evolve further and further.
So to judge someone is not our business and we are not here for that. we need to overcome our human weakness and use every opportunity and circumstance to evolve further into a perfect human being.

No one is good or bad but only our thoughts make them so. Most of our thoughts emerge out of our lower mind and may not be correct as our ego believes it to be. Pure thoughts emerge only when our inner voice is nothing but the voice of God and that is possible only when purity reigns the entire being. Our judgments are so superfluous and deceptive.

Judgment need not necessarily be thinking wrong about someone it could also be a blind judgment out of undue attachment. There are high possibilities that those whom we think to be good because of our attachment may have the least of care for us and those whom we have ignored all along might really be a good and loving person. But unless and until we come across such situations we may not be in a position to understand about our wrong judgments. Though such a situation offers us a good lesson that we should not be judgmental yet if we fail to understand it in a right spirit then we would only come to a wrong conclusion that our love was not reciprocated. Out of dejection and disappointment people start radiating hatred and become frustrated. My Master has clearly emphasized “If someone does not do his/her duty towards me, why should I fail in my duty towards him/her”

Similarly we may always find fault with someone and continue to think them as a bad person because some of their qualities may conflict with our ideas of good. So we need to remember the words of Jesus Christ “Do not judge lest you be judged. For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. (NASB) Matthew 7:1-2”

So let us never be judgmental and never form any sort of opinion on others nor talk ill of anyone because just like us everybody are on their own stage of evolution and we have no clue what their journey is all about. God has made this world as He saw fit. We need to mend our ways and make ourselves adaptable without judgments or opinions.
Every single complaint we make about our fellow beings is like complaining about the Lord Himself.

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