At times even if we are forgiving in nature if someone gives us stress repeatedly it's natural to go for a tit for tat,if not the first time then at least the fifth time.
I came across this recently, not all people react the way we do. When we are empathetic with someone but they are judgmental and critical when we make some mistake it's really annoying and next time we want to pin point them though that may not be our nature.
But it is important to think over it, it's not good to reflect other people's behaviour. If that was not our nature but only a reflection then we are making a mistake. Instead of correcting our mistakes we are letting our ego to do as it pleases and find satisfaction. It's not easy to identify this kind of subtle ego, so in simple terms we should be ourselves and not stoop down in behaviour just to find ego satisfaction,if we fail we would only make more and more Mistakes.
Let's be ourselves irrespective of what others are to us.We should respond and not react.
I came across this recently, not all people react the way we do. When we are empathetic with someone but they are judgmental and critical when we make some mistake it's really annoying and next time we want to pin point them though that may not be our nature.
But it is important to think over it, it's not good to reflect other people's behaviour. If that was not our nature but only a reflection then we are making a mistake. Instead of correcting our mistakes we are letting our ego to do as it pleases and find satisfaction. It's not easy to identify this kind of subtle ego, so in simple terms we should be ourselves and not stoop down in behaviour just to find ego satisfaction,if we fail we would only make more and more Mistakes.
Let's be ourselves irrespective of what others are to us.We should respond and not react.
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